Ready to Return Home to a Quiet Sanctuary:
# A Seasoned Traveler Seeking a Quiet Sanctuary: Reliable, Sociable, and Ready to Return Home
**Available from May 21st, 2026 | Seeking a 2–12 Month Stay**
After a decade of immersing myself in the vibrant cultures of India and Thailand, I am preparing for my journey back to the UK. I am a 60-year-old retired professional (though I like to think I have the energy and spirit of a 21-year-old!) looking for a peaceful, tidy, and welcoming place to call home while I transition back to British life.
### About Me
I am a non-smoker, a social drinker, and a firm believer in the "quiet life." My days are spent exploring—I love visiting old haunts and discovering new corners of the country, regardless of the weather. When I’m at home, I’m usually tucked away quietly working on my memoirs or planning my next local adventure.
I am highly sociable and enjoy a good chat, but I deeply respect the sanctity of privacy. I’m looking for a household that mirrors this: a calm environment free from loud music or the bustle of young children. I’m usually in bed by 11:00 PM, ensuring a restful night for everyone.
### What I’m Looking For
- **Location:** I am flexible! If I’ve reached out to you, it’s because I’ve carefully read your ad and believe your area would be a great fit.
- **Environment:** A quiet, respectful household. I am perfectly comfortable in LGBT+ households and have total respect for all religions, dietary preferences (I’m a meat-eater but very respectful of vegans/vegetarians), and lifestyles.
- **Transport:** Ideally within a mile of public transport, as I’ll be without a car for the first month or two.
### Financials & Peace of Mind
I understand the importance of trust in a house-share. Having been let down in the past, I value transparency:
- **Income:** I have a private income of approximately **£3,000 per month** (no benefits). I am happy to provide financial statements upon request.
- **Budget:** Up to **£750 pcm** (inclusive of bills).
- **Deposit:** I am looking for a modest deposit (ideally max £200 or payable installments ) to help manage the high costs of an international relocation.
- **Security:** I can provide excellent references and am CRB checked. To protect both parties from scams, I prefer to pay the rent upon entry/key exchange.
### The Logistics
As I am currently still in Thailand, I would love to arrange a viewing via **WhatsApp video call**. My move-in date is set for **May 21st, 2026**.
I am returning to the UK to be closer to family and to attend to some minor medical treatments, so finding a stable, peaceful base is my top priority.
If you have a room that feels like a sanctuary and you’re looking for a clean, reliable, and worldly housemate, I would love to hear from you.
**Warm regards,**
**Carl**
- Carl
- 60, male
- Single or double wanted
Total budget: £750 pcm
Availability
- Available
- 21st May 2026
- Minimum term
- 2 months
- Maximum term
- 12 months
Looking in
- Bournemouth
- Broadstone
- Christchurch
- Poole
- Wimborne
- Zone 1
- Zone 2 - North of the River
- Zone 2 - South of the River
Amenities required
- furnished room
- shared living room
About me
- Age
- 60
- Smoker?
- No
- Any pets?
- No
- Language
- English
- Nationality
- English
- Occupation
- Other
- Interests
- music, travelling, cooking, reading, art, socialising, food, walking, photography, theatre, wine, nature, writing, going out, culture
- Gender
- Male
- Orientation
- Straight
New household preferences
- Smokers OK?
- Yes
- Pets OK?
- Yes
- Occupation
- Don't mind
- Min age
- 35
- Max age
- 99
- Gender
- No preference specified